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Ready to be depressed? But not surprised - A review of my Inbox - Effort as a cheat code
Ready to be depressed? But not surprised.

See my Inbox (not DS) analysis of the messages from single males, to my couple's account.

There are many things about dating, connection, sex, relationships and in fact life, that are difficult or you can't control. Some may even try to argue that some of these things are unfair and it is not their fault.

But what you can 100% control is your effort. What is definitely not unfair is, when you put in no effort, you don't deserve any back.

Sending 200 x 15 word messages is not effort. Sending 15 x 200 word messages will get you more replies, but this is still lazy.

Effort split

Ultra-low: ≤2 words or emojis: ~20%
Content - Generic Greeting - “Hej”, “Hello”, or just emojis

Low: 3–15 words: ~42%
Content - quick interest, generic compliments, or logistics questions without intro.
Comment: They are often writing to state that they are attending and they want the info. Not asking if they can attend, but saying they will be there and they need the info.

Medium — 16–40 words: 22%
Content - brief intro + simple question/intent
Comment: Again assume they are welcome to attend. Telling me what they want to do her.

High Effort: 40+ words: 15%
Content - personalised intros, giving context and intent
Comment: Tell me how me what they want to do her. Also informing things like they have big cock, cum a lot, can go for hours etc

THIS IS HIGH EFFORT!!!! - The longest message was 58 word.

58 words takes about 1.5 mins to write. Even the highest amount of thought and effort, it can't have taken more than 5 mins. Nearly every message was about what they wanted to do. Even the ones that seemed less instant on what they wanted made no reference to our preferences.

It takes 12-20 secs to read 58 words. But actually, it takes less as mainly you just ignore.

Also, having nothing on your profile and then asking the other person to ask you questions or read more about you, is also not effort.

How I got replies when I had no verifications

I got replies to my DS profile, by first of all having a detailed presentation and pictures . Here is the thing, they probably won't even read it, but they will see that you have taken the time.

I also sent long well thought out message. I made reference to their wants and where we overlapped. I was clear on what I was looking for, but was not focused on what I was going to do them.

I told them about myself, I didn't write a offering to answer any questions they may have. Putting the burnded of effort on the person.

It took a long time and I got lots of unread or ignored messages. But every so often I would get a reply and most of the time, they were shocked to get such a nice message.

You can also take the the ESP INTRODUCTION COURSE - https://www.foxyfunevents.com/esp-introduction-course

✅ ESP Messaging Checklist (Level 1)

✅ ESP Profile Content Checklist (Level 1) Official

✅ ESP Profile Content Checklist (Level 1) Official

See previous post for further background - https://diversia.social/doc/?id=42673

🦊--- SINGLE MALES ---🦊
WANT THE CHANCE TO ATTEND FOXY?

If you have no or few verifications, you will not be able to just sign up and attend. You do have some options.

- If you dont meet the criteria - Foxy Fun Joining Requirements you can sign up for ESP Introduction Training
- Make sure you read and understand the ⚠️ Rules and Community Guidelines ⚠️
- Take the ESP INTRODUCTION COURSE - https://www.foxyfunevents.com/esp-introduction-course (THE COURSE DOES NOT GUARANTEE YOU WILL BE ABLE TO ATTEND)

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