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ItalianoPretty girls are everywhere, but what deeper value do you get from giving them attention?
| What is your actual intent? What are you trying to accomplish? Are you genuinely interested in getting to know each of these girls as a person? If you are genuinely interested in all of them, do you have the capacity to get to know that many girls at once? Do any of these girls you continue to give attention to show genuine interest in you in return, in any way, shape or form? I’m not saying you shouldn’t admire women and appreciate beauty. I do it all the time. But not because I have a void inside of me that I’m trying to fill with things outside myself. Not because I lack emotional connection. Not because I want and need other people to confirm my worth. Not because I believe there is always something new and better to find that will magically make me fulfilled. Many men are out there trying to grasp every little chance for connection. Dating apps. Mass messages. Liking pictures. Throwing out hooks everywhere in hopes of catching anything that will give them any sense of validation or value. It can become a never-ending desperation. The number of girls is endless. Do you believe that a girl will one day magically fill that void inside of you? It will likely just reinforce the cycle of searching outside yourself for something that can only be found within. What if the next time you felt compelled to indulge in this behavior, you instead chose to pause and explore what it is you’re actually seeking or missing in that moment? What do you think giving girls attention is going to give you? Could you instead choose to direct your attention toward yourself in a way that brings you true value? What if you focused on making sure you’re getting your basic human needs met? Do you believe your behavior would change if you felt deeply connected and whole within yourself? Written: November 11, 2026 |
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